Spain
Spanish Society and Culture
Personal pride and individualism are highly valued, as are character and breeding. Modesty is valued over assertiveness. Flaunting superiority, intelligence and ability is not appreciated. People strive to project affluence and social position. Personal appearance, image and human relationships are very important.
Etiquette and Customs
Meeting Etiquette
- Shake hands with everyone when arriving and leaving.
- Men may embrace each other when meeting.
- Women may kiss each other on the cheek and embrace.
- Spaniards usually stand very close when conversation.
- Spaniards like to speak with their hands.
- Don't touch, hug or back slap any Spaniard you are not friendly with.
Gift-Giving Etiquette
- Give high quality gifts (something name brand), but nothing to extravagant.
- Wrap the gift nicely.
- Give gifts such as brady, whiskey or a gift from your home town.
- Gifts are usually opened immediately.
- Don't give dahlias, chrysanthemums, white lilies, or red roses if you choose to give flowers. Also give flowers in uneven numbers.
Dining Etiquette
- Dinner usually starts around 9 PM. It is customary to show up 30 minutes late.
- Rest your wrists at the edge of the table when eating.
- Don't eat until the host begins.
- No bread plate is used bread is usually placed on the table.
- Don't eat with your hands. Not even fruits.
- Don't leave food on your plate.
- When you are finished eating place your knife and fork on the plate parallel with the handles facing to the right.
- Remain seated until the guest of honor gets up.