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Sorority Recruitment Rules

1. During the period of silence, there shall be no extended conversation between a recruit and any active member, alumna, or pledge, except at designated recruitment parties.

2. During the designated period of silence, active members, alumnae, and new members are bound by the rules of silence, and are not to make phone calls, give or send flowers, letters, notes, cards, or telegrams, etc.

3. No sorority member may buy anything for a recruit (meal, coke, gifts, or favors, etc.).

4. No recruit may buy anything for a sorority member.

5. Recruits must also observe rules of silence with those who are not members or new members of a sorority.

6. It is understood that recruits will be in contact with adults, independents, male acquaintances, and other recruits during the period of formal recruitment.  However, there should be no conversation concerning sororities during this time.

7. Recruits are not allowed to date during formal recruitment. A date is considered any form of engagement with one or more persons, male or female.

8. Recruits will provide her own transportation to and from recruitment events.

9. Recruits may associate with each other during the recruitment period but should not discuss sororities with the intent of influencing other recruits. The decision to accept a sorority party invitation and/or a sorority bid is an important one and each recruit should be accorded the privilege of determining her choice privately without the influence of other recruits.

10. Recruits who do not receive or accept any party invitations are not required to observe SILENCE except to other recruits and sorority members.